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I Choose Me

I Choose Me

Your mental peace is priceless; stop giving yourself less than what you deserve. 

I know it's hard as you go through life without stability, but who said your stability involves something or someone else?! My favorite quote is "protect your peace" because your peace is something you can't get back once it's been disturbed. 

I Do

I Do

“First comes love, Then comes Marriage, Then comes the baby in the baby carriage!”

Well, what if the order was reversed? Your whole life you’ve been told this is how it’s supposed to be, but you were never prepared for the things that took place in between!

Anything That Comes Easy Doesn’t Last Long

Anything That Comes Easy Doesn’t Last Long

You feel like quitting, don’t you? Do you feel like giving up and throwing in the towel? It seems like the weight of the world is on your shoulders, and you just can’t bare the pressure anymore. Yea I know what you’re going through!

Think Like A Man Or Lose Your Woman To A Real One

Think Like A Man Or Lose Your Woman To A Real One

Are you a man or a mouse?

Remember the first time you asked her out, or how about the day you asked her to marry you what happened to that man? Most women are in love with the man they met not the man they’re with.

Who Said Being A Parent Is Easy

Who Said Being A Parent Is Easy

Do you understand what it took for you to be here?

Your Mother and Father should be #2 behind God; that’s the only time your parents should be put behind anyone. We underestimate the value of Parents until you don’t have them anymore. The love and energy that your parents produce is something money can’t buy.

How Long Will They Mourn Me?

How Long Will They Mourn Me?

Today marks one week since we lost a young legend, king, visionary, the Tupac Shakur of this generation. People often forget to tell you how valuable you are while you’re alive, but are the first ones to celebrate you when you’re gone. Nipsey Hussle did so much for his community, his family and friends. I think we forget that Nipsey was only 33 years old. Wow, he made such a substantial impact in his community. His work overshadowed his age, and it was almost like he was ahead of his time.

Are You A Serial Dater?

Are You A Serial Dater?

Do you feel alone when you’re by yourself?

If you feel alone when you’re by yourself, that means you are not giving yourself the fulfillment that you need. Most people date for typical reasons. Emptiness, loneliness, boredom, or simply looking for a soulmate.

You Reap What You Sow

You Reap What You Sow

Are you reaping what you sow?

We are often taught that reaping what you sow is a bad thing. Well, it could be if all you have sown is negativity and wrongdoings. Now, let’s be honest, what’s done in the dark, only you and God knows. So if you’re out here doing wrong hurting those who love you, and not producing good energy, then reaping what you sow may not be in your best interest.

Learn How To Put Yourself First

Learn How To Put Yourself First

Second and third place does not get the trophy. The only person who wins is first place.

Many times we make sacrifices in our lives for those we care about and love deeply. I find myself stuck in a place asking, will those same individuals do the same for me? I am sure you had the same thoughts as well. The fact that you have to ask yourself that lets you know that you’re not finishing first. We are trained and programmed to think that the first thing we do when we get paid is to pay bills, provide, and forget about ourselves. I love to hear the quote, “you can’t do nothing for nobody else if you can’t do anything for yourself.”